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What achymarks a symbol of success and good grades?

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Are marks and good grades the only sign of success???
Stop, think, understand!!!!
Recently the matriculation result was announced and many friends, teachers and students posted huge statuses on Facebook. On the other hand, no one praised the average and failed students.
Failing students and students with low marks looked distressed.
Seeing all this situation, I tried to write something many times, but I was unable to write.
The first thing is that marks or grades are not success at all. The criteria of success is something else.
It is said that there was a balloon seller and his business trick was that he 10 Minutes later, he would break some balloons and release them in the air, the gas balloons would rise in the air and the children would be attracted towards him after seeing this scene and would buy balloons.
Similarly, one day a negro(black)The child was watching all this, he walked sadly to the balloonist and looked at the black balloon and said, "Does it fly too?" The balloonist broke the black balloon and released it.

This blue, yellow, black, nothing flies, it flies only if there is something inside.

That is, apparently, only having good grades is not a guarantee of a successful person, it also depends on what is inside him and what is his personality.
Here are some qualities of a successful person
1)He is always hardworking, but he also knows how to do smart work when needed, that is, he understands the situation.
2)A successful person always has strong faith in his hard work and in the grace of his Lord. He is far away from disappointment.
3)ایک کامیاب انسان ہمیشہ پوزیٹیو سوچتا ہے اور ناکامی کا Analysis کر کے کامیابی کی راہ نکالتا ہے۔
4)ایک کامیاب انسان پچھتاوے سے دور رہتا ہے
5)کامیاب انسان زندگی میں شکوؤں کو جگہ نہیں دیتا
6)A successful person finds satisfaction in helping others despite being in trouble
8)A successful person always gives respect and likes to bow down. Humility becomes his motto
9)A successful person inspires, supports and shares hope
10)A successful person knows how to appreciate and believes in team work, he is an excellent leader
11)A successful person keeps trying.
12)A successful person realizes his personality by doing self analysis and makes his abilities by knowing himself
13)A successful person keeps his vision clear, he knows his objectives and goals. He knows his strengths well.
14)A successful person has good habits. His character is spotless.
15)A successful person is always creative, he is the best creator.
A child's personality is perfect with these ingredients. Add these ingredients to the child's personality and then test it.
Failure and success are elements of life. If your child has failed, instead of embarrassing him further, encourage him. Respected teacher Qasim Ali Shah says that

Don't beat, feel or embarrass the one who is already dead

Analyze the failure of such children and help them in their future plan. It is the duty of parents, teachers and fellow students not to demotivate these children.

ایسی حالت میں بچہ والدین اور اساتذہ ی طرف دیکھتا ہے بس بچے کو مایوس نہ کریں۔۔گلے لگا کر آگے بڑھنے کا حوصلہ دیں کیونکہ دنیا کی تاریخ ایسے واقعات سے بھری پڑی ہے جہاں اک تھپکی نے تاریخ بدل ڈالی
Addison(Famous scientist-inventor of the light bulb) It is said that he was one of the students whom our teachers called the most unworthy. One day, his mother went to the market and left Edison at home. When she returned, Edison was missing. Voice Edison, where are you????
After searching, Addison was found sitting on chicken eggs from the chicken coop. The mother asked Addison, what are you doing here? She replied that when the hen sits, the chicks hatch, and when Edison sits, what will come out?
And such a person is given light like a bulb to the world

A great lesson of how parents can play their role comes from the life of this scientist
Edison was expelled from school for his actions and lack of intelligence and wrote a note and gave it to his mother. When he got home, his mother read the note aloud in front of Edison.
Dear Parents
آپ کا بچہ بہت ذہین اور creative ہے اس کا perception لیول اتنا اچھا ہے کہ ہمیں معلوم ہوتا ہے ہمارا سکول بچے کا ٹیلنٹ ضائع نہ کردے لہذا ہم بچے کا نام سکول سے خارج کر رہے ہیں تاکہ یہ کسی اچھے سکول جا سکے۔
کافی سالوں بعد اچانک الماری کھولتے ہوۓ ایڈیسن کو وہی نوٹ ملا تو پڑھ کر زارو قطار رویا جس پر لکھا تھا کہ آپ کا بچہ بہت نالائق ہے اور اسے ذہنی مسائل ہیں بری کارکردگی پر اسے سکول سے خارج کیا گیا ہے۔
Edison said the perfect sentence about it
I was the duffer student in the world but this sentence of my mother made me a great mind.

So don't pressure the child. Be his arm, be his strength and encourage him to move forward.

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